Yesterday Mary Hopkin's song Those were the days my friend https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3un5f6qLi_k made me think of what would be a good advice for social relations to work out nicely. Typically social situations do not go well if people are too closely together or demanded to be alike. Instead kind of hobby pals sharing the hobby for a moment, not deciding about each other's lives any more than that, seems to work best. It means that the people need to have shared values and somewhat similar skill levels in some way, so that they fit together and create possibilities for living in the society and in the wide world, and that they create the possibilitues for such a hobby, in their own ways share the joys of practising such a hobby. So the point is that they ought not sabotage lufe and not sabotage life according to civiliced values and wisdom of life. And typically, if the people behave ok in a society and ok in social contacts etc, then the relations just need to be distant enough, and so the young people's quests for a happy life of their own get supported by the civiliced views of hobby pals egc too, by the wisdom of life of each. But that is largely the environment, while the motivation and the wusdom of life need to be those of the individual obeself.
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